Sunday, October 9, 2011

Not a fan...

*warning... whining ahead, heavily influenced by military work situations- don't say I didn't warn you*

I'm not a fan of...
  • My husband working 18.5hr days
  • Pre-deployment drama... and it's not even the wives- it's the men!
  • The command threatening field training over Thanksgiving when it's suppose to be block-leave
  • One of my husband's buddies got here a month ago and is all moved in. This man was in our wedding, went through training/2 schools with my husband... yet, because of his super ridiculous wife... that haven't hung out once. Not once.
  • The fact that I can tell my husband is completely and utterly stressed out and I cannot help him. I can't know anything about his job (which, I admit is a blessing in disguise most days) which means he can't talk about anything with me, which means unless he hangs out with guys from his platoon... he's in a crappy mood after a bad day/bad week... then he comes home to me, and I either have to suck it up and deal with it, or I get emotional and cry.
  • When your business becomes other people's business... but not by choice.
  • Plans falling through over and over (not military related).
  • Trying to plan a trip home with consistently changing deployment dates.
  • Fake fake fake people. *sigh*
  • A former friend cheating on another friend of mine... after proposing to her, only to get caught, break it off, and propose to the girl he was cheating with... WHAT THE HECK?!
I promise happier things to come next time... I just really needed to get that stuff off my chest.


  1. Wow, you are going through a lot...I hope things settle down soon for you! I know how hard those pre-deployment days and wishing you could help with your husband's hard. A good whine always seemed to make me feel better - at least for a little while! Keeping you in my thoughts!

  2. The list just brought back some flashbacks of last year right before (and during) the deployment. Hopefully all that nonsense will stop soon.

  3. :( I hope some of this stress will end soon!

  4. poop!! Praying for you, and thinking of you - and trying to convince Eric that we need a trip to HI!! <-prayers for that would be welcome ;)


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